{"id":1023,"date":"2015-08-22T21:19:37","date_gmt":"2015-08-22T21:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/?p=1023"},"modified":"2020-02-04T00:05:31","modified_gmt":"2020-02-04T00:05:31","slug":"tips-for-successfully-juggling-more-than-one-mistress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/tips-for-successfully-juggling-more-than-one-mistress\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Successfully Juggling More than One Mistress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/find-an-affair-top-ranked-cheater-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Tips-for-Successfully-Juggling-More-than-One-Mistress.jpg\" alt=\"Tips-for-Successfully-Juggling-More-than-One-Mistress\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1039\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Tips-for-Successfully-Juggling-More-than-One-Mistress.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Tips-for-Successfully-Juggling-More-than-One-Mistress-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Tips-for-Successfully-Juggling-More-than-One-Mistress-117x88.jpg 117w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>For most people, maintaining a single mistress and keeping her hidden from their spouse is enough of a handful. For those practiced in the art of juggling relationships, there are whole personal systems you can put in place to keep everyone from knowing about the others and keep yourself from the train wreck that will come with your current partner finding out about your affairs. If you\u2019re just diving into the world of <a href=\"https:\/\/uk.askmen.com\/dating\/dating_advice_250\/258_dating_tips.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">balancing more than one girlfriend<\/a> alongside your wife or current partner, here are a few tips to making things go a little more smoothly.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\" \/><br clear=\"all\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Leave a Text Trail<\/h3>\n<p>This might seem like a no-brainer, but one of the biggest reasons guys <a href=\"https:\/\/www.2dayfm.com.au\/scoopla\/life\/blog\/2014\/9\/21-dumb-cheaters-who-got-busted-shamed-on-facebook\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">get busted cheating<\/a> is that they get lazy about erasing texts, using discreet names on their contacts list, and try to hold on to nudes and hot messages for \u201cjust a little while\u201d so they have something in the spank bank for later on. Even with a locked phone, this is one of the worst things you can do for yourself, and holding on to texts is like asking to get caught in a lie. Watch out how you list all your ladies in your contacts, because if you\u2019re with one girlfriend and get a text from another, her name can show up on the screen along with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.iphonefaq.org\/archives\/97350\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">short preview<\/a> of what she has to say. Don\u2019t let having a smartphone trip you up, and make sure you\u2019re careful to clean up your message history as you go.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3YwmPFtSoAs\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Zoning Out Around a Girl on a Date is a Dead Giveaway<\/h3>\n<p>This is especially true if the date you have with you knows that she\u2019s a mistress, and you\u2019re trying to keep her in the dark about the fact that she\u2019s not the only woman you\u2019re seeing besides your wife or live-in girlfriend. If you let your thoughts wander to a different woman while you\u2019re on a date, don\u2019t think your girl isn\u2019t going to notice. A lot of women, especially those who have encountered cheaters before or are one themselves, are going to be LOOKING for an excuse to think that you\u2019re cheating on them. Don\u2019t give them an easy pass when you put so much work into keeping things secret. Instead, do your best to focus on the date and woman at hand, not someone currently out of reach. Zoning out, not listening to her, and overall not being \u201cpresent\u201d when you\u2019re spending time with her is going to be a dead giveaway that will royally screw you over.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Let Anyone Feel Left Out<\/h3>\n<p>The longer you put off talking with a girl or seeing her, the more she is going to brood over the idea that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womansday.com\/relationships\/dating-marriage\/advice\/a1586\/11-signs-that-he-might-be-having-an-affair-107288\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">seeing someone else<\/a>. One of the sacrifices you have to make when you\u2019re balancing multiple relationships is that the more girls you have, the more time you\u2019re going to need to take out to send time on dates and the less you\u2019re going to have to spend alone. Letting one or more of your girlfriends feel left out or like SHE isn\u2019t the apple of your eye is going to result in a lot of bitterness and spite from her end. Even in the rare cases of a girl who knows she\u2019s a mistress, or one of many, every one of them is going to want the majority of your time. While you can\u2019t exactly bring the group together, you will need to figure out a schedule that will not let anyone feel like they\u2019re getting neglected. The longer you\u2019ve been with a woman, the more time she\u2019ll expect from you. If you want your relationships to last, you\u2019re going to need to put yourself in their shoes sometimes and not just play favorites like there won\u2019t be any consequences.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Actively Maintain Your Social Media Accounts<\/h3>\n<p>One of the most common ways of talking to multiple women is to have a number of <a href=\"https:\/\/smallbusiness.chron.com\/can-two-facebook-accounts-one-email-address-26646.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fake accounts online with sites like Facebook<\/a>. This way, the girlfriend you have on one account won\u2019t see your interaction with your other girlfriends or get upset when you won\u2019t change your \u201crelationship status\u201d on your profile. It is definitely best to build up at least two believable, active profiles on Facebook or another social media site you typically use. Even if one of your mistresses knows that she isn\u2019t the only one, it\u2019s a good idea not to let her in on WHO the other girls are. A single moment of jealousy on her part could lead to one girl telling all the others what\u2019s going on, and the life you\u2019ve worked hard to build up could unravel VERY quickly. Instead, just keep everyone a safe distance from each other and make sure you\u2019re keeping up with all your accounts often enough to make them believable to each respective girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<h3><a title=\"Best Site To Find Your Own Affair\" href=\"https:\/\/www.freehookups.com\/dating\/greymobile\/88822\/AH_blog-morethanonemistress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Special Offer For Affair Handbook Readers FREE Trial Membership On Affairs Club<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For most people, maintaining a single mistress and keeping her hidden from their spouse is enough of a handful. For those practiced in the art of juggling relationships, there are whole personal systems you can put in place to keep everyone from knowing about the others and keep yourself from the train wreck that will [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[14,109,216,214,161,174,215],"class_list":["post-1023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","tag-affair-advice","tag-having-an-affair","tag-hiding-your-affair","tag-juggling-relationships","tag-mistress","tag-multiple-affairs","tag-multiple-mistresses"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1023"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2474,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1023\/revisions\/2474"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}