{"id":1116,"date":"2016-01-15T18:01:41","date_gmt":"2016-01-15T18:01:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/?p=1116"},"modified":"2020-02-04T00:21:00","modified_gmt":"2020-02-04T00:21:00","slug":"simple-ways-to-prevent-affair-partner-from-getting-affached","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.affairhandbook.com\/index.php\/simple-ways-to-prevent-affair-partner-from-getting-affached\/","title":{"rendered":"Simple Ways To Help Prevent Your Affair Partner From Getting Attached"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Simple-Ways-To-Help-Prevent-Your-Affair-Partner-From-Getting-Attached\"<\/a>Affairs are a delicate thing. People have them for a whole slew of reasons<\/a>. Some people have affairs because they lose confidence in their attractiveness and allure after a lengthy relationship, others crave the excitement of an illicit thing, and others are just bored and look to alleviate the monotony of a long-term relationship. What most people who have affairs are not looking for is another long-term relationship. But affairs are emotionally charged, exciting things and people get carried away all too often. If your not careful, a woman who seems fine with a quickie affair at first can turn into an obsessed, love stricken stalker. – Five Signs You Have A Stalker<\/a> – Fortunately, there are several precautions you can take to make sure your affair partner doesn\u2019t get attached.
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Set Clear Rules & Boundaries<\/h3>\n

Before you ever take your first forbidden date, make sure your affair partner knows exactly what you\u2019re in it for. This doesn\u2019t have to be a crass conversation. You don\u2019t have to be rude or disrespectful. In fact, most women appreciate a direct, honest approach instead of leading her on and suddenly disappearing. Be straight forward when you tell her that you do not have any intention of ending your marriage. Explain why you feel the need to have an affair and what you need to take from it.
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Set a Timeframe<\/h3>\n

Not all affair situations are conducive to this approach, but if it works, set a designated time frame to end the affair. Maybe you just need a weekend thing or perhaps you\u2019re on a week-long business trip. It may be even longer if that feels right. Setting a designated time frame for the affair<\/a> lets her know that it won\u2019t be forever and you have no intention of falling I love. She knows from the very start that this is meant for fun and nothing else.
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Never Say the L Word<\/h3>\n

Telling your affair partner you love her<\/a> is never a good idea. Even if you two are the best of friends, that word should never be broached. Sex changes a relationship quickly and enhances emotions already present. Saying the dreaded L word can give her some idea that you may want to continue the affair or take it to the next level. It\u2019s OK to have feelings for the person your involved in an affair with but it shouldn\u2019t go beyond what you have for your wife.
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