Welcome to Affair Handbook! If you have found this site you are at least considering having an affair. This can be a very freighting thought, and I am sure many questions are swirling through your head. Where do I find other married but looking partners? What are the best affair sites online? How can I avoid getting caught? Not to worry! The affair handbook has you covered. We will provide you with all the information you need to have an affair without getting caught! We will point out common mistakes people make, and will assist you in choosing the correct websites for your affair. Remember, if you don’t plan it, and you don’t have a method you’re practically guaranteed to fail at having an affair.


Cheating Advice & Tips

5 Behavioral Patterns that Will Expose Your Affair Fast

30 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on 5 Behavioral Patterns that Will Expose Your Affair Fast

5 Behavioral Patterns that Will Expose Your Affair Fast
Unless you’re one of the few lucky people who have the trust and consent of their partner to be in an open relationship, your affair is your biggest secret and you have to do it on the sly. There are any number of reasons driving the desire to cheat. The most common factors are dead […] » Read More

Abuse and Cheating: Is it Okay To Cheat On Someone Who Hurts You?

21 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on Abuse and Cheating: Is it Okay To Cheat On Someone Who Hurts You?

Abuse and Cheating: Is it Okay To Cheat On Someone Who Hurts You?
Many men and women are in abusive relationships (Signs Your In A Bad Relationship). The number of relationships involving domestic violence and emotional abuse are grossly unreported in America. It’s quite possible that someone you know was or currently is in a relationship that is abusive that they are ashamed of and want to keep […] » Read More

6 Reasons to Have a Gay Affair

15 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on 6 Reasons to Have a Gay Affair

6 Reasons to Have a Gay Affair
Most married men and women seek out affairs from people the same gender as their spouse. In straight relationships, this means men will seek out a woman and a woman will seek out a man to have a fun night out with, or maybe even more. Breaking the typical mold set forth by society, what’s […] » Read More

How Social Media Makes Finding Affairs Easy

10 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on How Social Media Makes Finding Affairs Easy

How Social Media Makes Finding Affairs Easy
Back in the day it was a lot harder to have a discreet affair. Finding someone who was interested and already knew that you had to keep things secret was a real risk since you never knew if she might throw a drink in your face, or worse, turn you over to your wife or […] » Read More

4 Reasons to Have an Affair with Someone Out of Your Comfort Zone

30 Jun 2015 // Comments Off on 4 Reasons to Have an Affair with Someone Out of Your Comfort Zone

4 Reasons to Have an Affair with Someone Out of Your Comfort Zone
Much of the time we will find ourselves drawn to the familiar in life, in marriage, and if we aren’t careful, even in our affairs. This is exactly what you do not want to do. The entire point of having an affair is to experience something different and something new. If you just get the […] » Read More

How To Have More Than One Affair At A Time

23 Jun 2015 // Comments Off on How To Have More Than One Affair At A Time

How To Have More Than One Affair At A Time
Some guys just can’t get enough. If being married and having an affair wasn’t enough, some men want even more. For whatever reason this is, if this is something you’re interested it is definitely possible. However, it will take quite a bit of planning and understanding to assure that no issues arise. As if they […] » Read More

Do you have to tell your wife about the affair for it to benefit your marriage?

12 Jun 2015 // Comments Off on Do you have to tell your wife about the affair for it to benefit your marriage?

Do you have to tell your wife about the affair for it to benefit your marriage?
People have affairs for all kinds of reasons. It’s a personal decision that has the ability to affect your entire life. It can be both devastating and helpful. Research has shown us that affairs often help a marriage but only if you keep it a secret, get what you need out of the affair, and […] » Read More

Top FAQ’s when starting an affair

29 May 2015 // Comments Off on Top FAQ’s when starting an affair

Top FAQ’s when starting an affair
It doesn’t matter if its the first time you have an affair, or one of many, there are a lot questions. You know you want it to happen but you don’t know how to get it started. Even after you’re enmeshed in an affair, there are still many questions about how long to carry on, […] » Read More

Why It’s So Important To Always Have An Affair Outside Of Your Circle Of Friends

14 May 2015 // Comments Off on Why It’s So Important To Always Have An Affair Outside Of Your Circle Of Friends

Why It’s So Important To Always Have An Affair Outside Of Your Circle Of Friends
For what could be a myriad of reasons, your spouse is no longer keeping you satisfied. Whether it be her performance in the bedroom (or lack thereof), her declining looks, conflicts with work etc. you’ve decided that an extramarital affair is in order to keep you fully satisfied. Depending on how long you’ve been in […] » Read More

What To Do If Your Mistress Gets Violent With You

29 Apr 2015 // Comments Off on What To Do If Your Mistress Gets Violent With You

What To Do If Your Mistress Gets Violent With You
When a man begins an affair the last thing he wants is drama from his mistress. He assumes the risk of getting caught by his wife and is aware of her inevitable chastising, but he doesn’t expect that from his mistress. In the arrangement between a man and his mistress her role is clearly defined. […] » Read More